{"id":12689,"date":"2019-06-23T05:29:58","date_gmt":"2019-06-23T04:29:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.richardlittledale.co.uk\/?p=12689"},"modified":"2019-09-19T16:58:31","modified_gmt":"2019-09-19T15:58:31","slug":"the-reluctant-gardener","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/176.32.230.12\/richardlittledale.co.uk\/2019\/06\/23\/the-reluctant-gardener\/","title":{"rendered":"The reluctant gardener"},"content":{"rendered":"
Saucery in the back garden<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Other people<\/em> know the names of plants. Other people<\/em> ‘get out there’ whenever they can to pull up a few weeds or check how their latest plant is doing. Other people<\/em> look upon a trip to the garden centre or nursery as a pleasant excursion, and drive home keen to give their new\u00a0leafy acquisitions a home. Other people<\/em> wander outside every morning to see how their garden grows.\u00a0Other people<\/em> do all those things – but not me. Until now, that is.<\/p>\n Over the past six weeks I have found myself pouring more and more time into the back garden which I am fortunate to have. I do it very inexpertly, and with the peculiar combination of ignorance and enthusiasm with which we greet any new hobby. However, I am loving every minute of it. When I tried to explain this to a friend recently, she nodded sagely and acknowledged the value of eco-therapy. I am starting to know what she means.<\/p>\n Nineteen months since the death of my beloved wife, there are many reasons why I find this particular kind of therapy useful. Bereavement can be a messy and overgrown place – where precious memories disappear under the relentless march of the now. It has been therapeutic to reverse that trend as the garden starts to emerge from the weeds.\u00a0<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Weekends and evenings can be the loneliest times – especially as summer evenings grow longer. Out there, though – with muscles aching and birds singing – it seems to recede a little – like the weeds. As a Christian, I love the fact that I can only do so<\/em> much too. I can work out there for many hours, preparing the soil and planting new flowers – but when I go out in the morning it is God who has done the magical thing of bringing pink, white, yellow or red flowers from green plants.<\/p>\n